What is men’s greatest value? What do they value above all else? The answer is independence, i.e. the fact or the illusion that they control something external to themselves. Men will give up everything else to preserve this. When a wife or a government steps on their sense of control, men bite back.
What is women’s number #1 value? Connectedness–to family, friends, teachers, place and tradition. Women will give up everything to keep these connections. If a husband steps on his wife’s sense of connection to friends or family, he is in trouble.
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